Ellen Adarna said she’s choosing celibacy and focusing on healing following her very public split from husband Derek Ramsay, which stemmed from explosive allegations she made online in November.
Ellen shared a series of screenshots and videos on Instagram, claiming she had “receipts” of her then-husband’s alleged infidelity early in their relationship, even before they married, and criticized his behavior in their marriage, accusations that quickly made showbiz headlines.
Replying to a recent fan question on Instagram about her next possible partner, Adarna revealed she has committed to “five years of celibacy,” saying the decision is about personal growth, not fear.
“I committed to five years of celibacy, renewable every five years. If it works, I continue. If it doesnt, the purpose and goal was still fulfilled. (And yes longer than my marriage 🤣🤣) will focus on my babies ❤️,” said Ellen.
She continued, “Wait until the dust settles.”
“This isnt about fear, its about healing my nervous system.
“Im choosing regulation over rushing (because duh, whirlwind romance pa more! Trauma izz real) 🤣🤷♀️ as per Alanis – you live you learn. Tanga ko nalang kung di,” she added.
She explained that after past whirlwind romances and the emotional toll of her split, she’s prioritizing healing and regulating her nervous system over rushing into anything new.
The actress also shared that her attention is now firmly on her children, emphasizing that she’s giving herself space and time to let “the dust settle” before considering her romantic future.
